Monday, July 13, 2009

Chapter 3 : Have crush with your best friend's ex

Well... As mentioned above, how to be with your best friend's ex??
I would say that i strongly against this agenda here as eventhough your friend would not mind about it, it would still land both of them in a difficult situation whenever they met each other during outings or functions..
The best way is to really avoid this kind of dilemma because it would be the best remedy in this situation.
Being together will be bad rather than not being together..
Fellow readers, pls be aware that sometimes it is fated that there is some ppl might not be together eventhough they love each other very much.
Once, i felt for this girl which unfortunately is one of my friend's ex and i think that i felt for her is cause of our great understanding towards each other in terms of needs and thinking...
We thought that we were heading towards the same direction and til now i still did not ask her whether she did have the same feeling on me...
But that was the past as both of us were enjoying our time and present relationship...
Still at that time, we were really close and warm...
What stop me at that time was tgat she's my fren's ex..
Although i knew that my fren would not mind about it but on the other hand i do not want to put her in a dilemma situation whenever we have group outings...
besides that, we were aware what we had done before with our past relationship or with each of our partners..
I guess i did not mind about what they did before but then in future if i did really mind about it then i guess it will really jeopardise our relationship and affect our future...
That's the thing i really considered before together with her...
And if you really want to be with your friend's ex then pls have a thought about what i had said above...
Pls be considerate on her and dont put her into this dilemma position...
That's all what i want to say here...
Think twice before taking any important action which might affect the future of your own or the another...

5 comments:

Cnigel said...

"great understanding towards each other in terms of needs and thinking..."
LOL...wat needs ure saying?haha
sexual needs izit

(,") said...

if really love each other den shld b v her no matter wat d reason..all reasons given r excuses..

ja said...

cnigel cari pasal. defamed me. kns you...hahahahahaha

(,"), are you the girl he mentioned in this post?


p.s. - wth, my word verification for this comment is fleas. kotor semacam tu cnigel.

Cnigel said...

oi oja...haha y kasi promote me in yy's blog.later i curi all his female reader then no good la kan

ja said...

wah in what way i am promoting you?

jgn perasan macam alishan gu niang.

hahahahahaha.....