Chapter 3 : Have crush with your best friend's ex

Well... As mentioned above, how to be with your best friend's ex??
I would say that i strongly against this agenda here as eventhough your friend would not mind about it, it would still land both of them in a difficult situation whenever they met each other during outings or functions..
The best way is to really avoid this kind of dilemma because it would be the best remedy in this situation.
Being together will be bad rather than not being together..
Fellow readers, pls be aware that sometimes it is fated that there is some ppl might not be together eventhough they love each other very much.
Once, i felt for this girl which unfortunately is one of my friend's ex and i think that i felt for her is cause of our great understanding towards each other in terms of needs and thinking...
We thought that we were heading towards the same direction and til now i still did not ask her whether she did have the same feeling on me...
But that was the past as both of us were enjoying our time and present relationship...
Still at that time, we were really close and warm...
What stop me at that time was tgat she's my fren's ex..
Although i knew that my fren would not mind about it but on the other hand i do not want to put her in a dilemma situation whenever we have group outings...
besides that, we were aware what we had done before with our past relationship or with each of our partners..
I guess i did not mind about what they did before but then in future if i did really mind about it then i guess it will really jeopardise our relationship and affect our future...
That's the thing i really considered before together with her...
And if you really want to be with your friend's ex then pls have a thought about what i had said above...
Pls be considerate on her and dont put her into this dilemma position...
That's all what i want to say here...
Think twice before taking any important action which might affect the future of your own or the another...

Kennylogy Chapter 2 : What is relationship all aabot??

Most of the ppl think that relationship is all about love..
For me love is only one of the criterias.
Besides love, the relationship also needs toleration, honesty and as well trustworthy
It is true that everything started from love but at the end, it is what makes the relationship can last forever or long...
so the answer should be toleration btw the couple.
No matter how much you love each other but without toleration during cold time, you would not end up happily and as this incident keeps repeating, the relationship will become sour
This can be consider as the toughest time during a relationship..
either one of the parties become bored of the relationship, then it will eventually become bored.
So what makes toleration important is that it'll save your lovely fairytale relationship..Then, the next question should be how to tolerate??
There are times that either couple will be stupid and fight for anything for whatever reason..
If he/she can be reason then just try to reason with them...
There is no point arguing with them when they are in such a fuking stupid mode..
If he/she cant be reason then just take the blame, be a kind towards your relationship if you really intending to save it...
When the cold war eased then reason yourself..
I've been in such a situation before and really wanted to give up at that point of time, but because i felt that the relationship did worth for me in taking the blame then i'm fine with it....
On the other hand, if you really think that you cant accept the cruelty or the stupidiness of your partner then might as well leave it early...
this is because once u felt there's no room for development in your relationship then the fact is your relationship is coming to an end..
why you want to put yourself and your partner to suffer while you know that the relationship is coming to an end..
Just end it at the right time and not delaying to a longer period and at that later time, you'll have to be blame again..
There's really not a a need to do this shit..
So fellow readers, if you felt that you are in this position currently then think twice...
Think again, does this relationship worth your time and your patience??
If yes then just go on with it and work harder in making a fairytale ending in your love life...
Thats all i want to say here...