First of all i would like to say here is that most of the couples will experience a change of life after they get involve into a relationship..
If you are situated in this scenario then try to make it more relax and try not to change each other life style as it might get you to nowhere...
Relationship will only be meaningful when both parties accept each others'weaknesses and as well as behaviour..
There's ppl whon like to hang out with friends rather than with their partner...
This is not really a situation that the parties are not meant for each others but it is just that they had get used with friends or their company wherever they are..
So guys and girls, what you can do here is just try to make a click with them and i shall say here is that your partner might really wish that you and his/her friends can really get along well so that he/she need not to crack for reasons for not bringing you along during group outing..
Buton the other hand, if you really find that you cant get along with them then just let ur partner know about you..
I'm sure that since the 2 of you can be together, it means that eventually you'll have the understanding btw each other..
Just let your partner know that you just cant click into the group and he/she might not be in a dilemma situation in the future...
And lastly, always provide the freedom to your partner that he/she had before he/she got involved with you...
This is because if the parties are too resticted with each other, then the lack of space to communicate with the outer world will jeopardise your relationship as you'll felt that either party is restricting your rights and freedom...
Just remember that eventhough you have the freedom to enjoy your life at the moment, always think about your partner that thinking of your whereabout...
Be abit more kind and just let them know if you're going out or doing something else besides chatting or sms-ing with them...
It'll actually show them that you respect their presence in your life and not just like reporting about your daily activities...
Pls do it sincerely and not to the extend as if you're beng force to do so...
That's all i wanted to say here..
Anyway, i'm really freaking down now..
HUh!!! Hope i can really get my life going with her...
We really have alot of stuff to improve to maintain our relationship til like a fairy tale ending...
haha...
dear... love u...
Monday, August 3, 2009
Monday, July 13, 2009
Chapter 3 : Have crush with your best friend's ex
Well... As mentioned above, how to be with your best friend's ex??
I would say that i strongly against this agenda here as eventhough your friend would not mind about it, it would still land both of them in a difficult situation whenever they met each other during outings or functions..
The best way is to really avoid this kind of dilemma because it would be the best remedy in this situation.
Being together will be bad rather than not being together..
Fellow readers, pls be aware that sometimes it is fated that there is some ppl might not be together eventhough they love each other very much.
Once, i felt for this girl which unfortunately is one of my friend's ex and i think that i felt for her is cause of our great understanding towards each other in terms of needs and thinking...
We thought that we were heading towards the same direction and til now i still did not ask her whether she did have the same feeling on me...
But that was the past as both of us were enjoying our time and present relationship...
Still at that time, we were really close and warm...
What stop me at that time was tgat she's my fren's ex..
Although i knew that my fren would not mind about it but on the other hand i do not want to put her in a dilemma situation whenever we have group outings...
besides that, we were aware what we had done before with our past relationship or with each of our partners..
I guess i did not mind about what they did before but then in future if i did really mind about it then i guess it will really jeopardise our relationship and affect our future...
That's the thing i really considered before together with her...
And if you really want to be with your friend's ex then pls have a thought about what i had said above...
Pls be considerate on her and dont put her into this dilemma position...
That's all what i want to say here...
Think twice before taking any important action which might affect the future of your own or the another...
I would say that i strongly against this agenda here as eventhough your friend would not mind about it, it would still land both of them in a difficult situation whenever they met each other during outings or functions..
The best way is to really avoid this kind of dilemma because it would be the best remedy in this situation.
Being together will be bad rather than not being together..
Fellow readers, pls be aware that sometimes it is fated that there is some ppl might not be together eventhough they love each other very much.
Once, i felt for this girl which unfortunately is one of my friend's ex and i think that i felt for her is cause of our great understanding towards each other in terms of needs and thinking...
We thought that we were heading towards the same direction and til now i still did not ask her whether she did have the same feeling on me...
But that was the past as both of us were enjoying our time and present relationship...
Still at that time, we were really close and warm...
What stop me at that time was tgat she's my fren's ex..
Although i knew that my fren would not mind about it but on the other hand i do not want to put her in a dilemma situation whenever we have group outings...
besides that, we were aware what we had done before with our past relationship or with each of our partners..
I guess i did not mind about what they did before but then in future if i did really mind about it then i guess it will really jeopardise our relationship and affect our future...
That's the thing i really considered before together with her...
And if you really want to be with your friend's ex then pls have a thought about what i had said above...
Pls be considerate on her and dont put her into this dilemma position...
That's all what i want to say here...
Think twice before taking any important action which might affect the future of your own or the another...
Friday, July 10, 2009
Kennylogy Chapter 2 : What is relationship all aabot??
Most of the ppl think that relationship is all about love..
For me love is only one of the criterias.
Besides love, the relationship also needs toleration, honesty and as well trustworthy
It is true that everything started from love but at the end, it is what makes the relationship can last forever or long...
so the answer should be toleration btw the couple.
No matter how much you love each other but without toleration during cold time, you would not end up happily and as this incident keeps repeating, the relationship will become sour
This can be consider as the toughest time during a relationship..
either one of the parties become bored of the relationship, then it will eventually become bored.
So what makes toleration important is that it'll save your lovely fairytale relationship..Then, the next question should be how to tolerate??
There are times that either couple will be stupid and fight for anything for whatever reason..
If he/she can be reason then just try to reason with them...
There is no point arguing with them when they are in such a fuking stupid mode..
If he/she cant be reason then just take the blame, be a kind towards your relationship if you really intending to save it...
When the cold war eased then reason yourself..
I've been in such a situation before and really wanted to give up at that point of time, but because i felt that the relationship did worth for me in taking the blame then i'm fine with it....
On the other hand, if you really think that you cant accept the cruelty or the stupidiness of your partner then might as well leave it early...
this is because once u felt there's no room for development in your relationship then the fact is your relationship is coming to an end..
why you want to put yourself and your partner to suffer while you know that the relationship is coming to an end..
Just end it at the right time and not delaying to a longer period and at that later time, you'll have to be blame again..
There's really not a a need to do this shit..
So fellow readers, if you felt that you are in this position currently then think twice...
Think again, does this relationship worth your time and your patience??
If yes then just go on with it and work harder in making a fairytale ending in your love life...
Thats all i want to say here...
For me love is only one of the criterias.
Besides love, the relationship also needs toleration, honesty and as well trustworthy
It is true that everything started from love but at the end, it is what makes the relationship can last forever or long...
so the answer should be toleration btw the couple.
No matter how much you love each other but without toleration during cold time, you would not end up happily and as this incident keeps repeating, the relationship will become sour
This can be consider as the toughest time during a relationship..
either one of the parties become bored of the relationship, then it will eventually become bored.
So what makes toleration important is that it'll save your lovely fairytale relationship..Then, the next question should be how to tolerate??
There are times that either couple will be stupid and fight for anything for whatever reason..
If he/she can be reason then just try to reason with them...
There is no point arguing with them when they are in such a fuking stupid mode..
If he/she cant be reason then just take the blame, be a kind towards your relationship if you really intending to save it...
When the cold war eased then reason yourself..
I've been in such a situation before and really wanted to give up at that point of time, but because i felt that the relationship did worth for me in taking the blame then i'm fine with it....
On the other hand, if you really think that you cant accept the cruelty or the stupidiness of your partner then might as well leave it early...
this is because once u felt there's no room for development in your relationship then the fact is your relationship is coming to an end..
why you want to put yourself and your partner to suffer while you know that the relationship is coming to an end..
Just end it at the right time and not delaying to a longer period and at that later time, you'll have to be blame again..
There's really not a a need to do this shit..
So fellow readers, if you felt that you are in this position currently then think twice...
Think again, does this relationship worth your time and your patience??
If yes then just go on with it and work harder in making a fairytale ending in your love life...
Thats all i want to say here...
Tuesday, June 16, 2009
Kennylogy ( Introduction )
Finally i got my personal time to write about kennylogy...
First of all, let me explain how kennylogy appears in this world..
It came into existence during my birthday celebration back in a month ago in Wong Kok restaurant, Leisure mall thanks to the brilliant suggestions by some of the kohs members...
So anyway, what is kennylogy about??
At the very beginning, kennylogy is about teenagers mainly about love issues such as love life, problems they will faced and how they can solve it or even how to start interaction among people etc. approach the opposite sex people...
I guess most people who know me will definately know who i am so i can just skip my personal details right??
So lets move on into my history..
As predicted or widely known, i had around 28/29 girlfriends which everything started since i'm in form 1..
And by the way, do not ask me who were they as the past is the past and let not mention about it, shall we??
Although i had loads of gfs before but i guess it is nothing to be proud of as eventually, it might affect your personal resume in future or in other words, others perception towards you..
If others do not understand your situation, they might think that you're just a playboy which just fuk around girls and left them in darkness..
Well, i shall say here is that, it is true that i am a fuker in the past but at the present, i am not.
Everything just happened like that and i'm pretty regretful how things being turn into and so thats the main reason why i'm right here now writing the term kennylogy which i hope people will take my advise and shall not repeat the same mistake that i've made with a reason that i do not wish they ended up like me =)
Guess that's all about the introduction of kennylogy and stay put to browse chapter 2 of kennylogy : what is relationship??
First of all, let me explain how kennylogy appears in this world..
It came into existence during my birthday celebration back in a month ago in Wong Kok restaurant, Leisure mall thanks to the brilliant suggestions by some of the kohs members...
So anyway, what is kennylogy about??
At the very beginning, kennylogy is about teenagers mainly about love issues such as love life, problems they will faced and how they can solve it or even how to start interaction among people etc. approach the opposite sex people...
I guess most people who know me will definately know who i am so i can just skip my personal details right??
So lets move on into my history..
As predicted or widely known, i had around 28/29 girlfriends which everything started since i'm in form 1..
And by the way, do not ask me who were they as the past is the past and let not mention about it, shall we??
Although i had loads of gfs before but i guess it is nothing to be proud of as eventually, it might affect your personal resume in future or in other words, others perception towards you..
If others do not understand your situation, they might think that you're just a playboy which just fuk around girls and left them in darkness..
Well, i shall say here is that, it is true that i am a fuker in the past but at the present, i am not.
Everything just happened like that and i'm pretty regretful how things being turn into and so thats the main reason why i'm right here now writing the term kennylogy which i hope people will take my advise and shall not repeat the same mistake that i've made with a reason that i do not wish they ended up like me =)
Guess that's all about the introduction of kennylogy and stay put to browse chapter 2 of kennylogy : what is relationship??
Monday, June 15, 2009
PD Trip
Just came back yesterday from my PD trip...
And as usual, dere's no photos available cuz i din bring along my camera for dis trip.
Really sorry but i got my reason bhind it..
Most of us are plannin to get drunk in pd and it'll be better dat none of us are bringing valuable items since we cant perform our responsibility when we're drinking... so ok every1??
We left KL for PD around 1pm on sat and it was indeed a very bad mistake...
It was really fuking jam when we approach the tol at serdang...
But thank god dat da traffic was getting better soon after we left da massive crawl at da tol...
Trying to catch up with da fellow convoy cars as dey left me at da tol when i was tryin to reload my touch n go credit...
So after driving at da speed of 140km/h, i was not able to catch dem and my frenz whom in da same car as me suggested dat v sud speed up...
So i speed at around 200km/h and soon less den 5min, all da convoy cars were bhind me n out of all sudden, i realised dat i dun know da way to da condo in pd.....
I had to stop my car bside da road n waited for them...
Bloody hell, dey took around 8-10min and i was like fuk la.. why are dey so slow???
Soon, after dey reached, one of my frenz call me and laugh while saying dat v purposely drive slow after u overtake us as v know v cant catch up wit ur speed...
-_-" wtf!!!
in my mind i was like,, MCH... Of cuz u cant catch up wit my speed but i'll slow down once i cant see u guys on my rear mirror... but diuz la..
1 funny thing is dat after v reach da condo, v onli realised dat dere's 2 heroes went missing halfway thru da journey... haha.. reli darn 7 so haiz...
v reach pd roughly around 2.40pm and guess wat, da 1st thing v did is start drinking..
huh!! dey were really typical indians...
so while waiting for da 2 missin cars, v drank almost 1 crade of carlsberg 1.5lire bottles..
every1 got into da mood of drinking but some of us plannin to have some beach activities..
so da group spilted into 2; 1 drinkin and da other 1 beach
i went to da beach with my fren and oh gosh, at dat time i onli knew dat some of my frenz haven sat at banana boat b4..
so dey were quite excited about it and we paid rm80 for 6 ppl...
it was really funny as most of my frenz were fat and u sud hav a look when dey were tryin2 get back onto da banana boat in da middle of da sea... seriously, even da boat operator was frustrated as my frenz took lotz of time jus to get back onto da float..
haha....
well soon after dat, we head up for shower n proceed for da bbq dinner...
v had chicken wings, sausages with cheese n without cheese n lambs...
done wit dinner which also mean dat time to start drinking...
at total we brought 4 crades of 1.5 litres bottles of beer, 2 crades of beers ( cans ), 1 bottle of chivas, red lable, famous grouse, black lable, vodka and other chivas which i cant rmb as i was drunk d...
so it was indeed a very memorable trip as once again, v ended up goin to fight among ourself cuz of da same person again..
lets not talk bout dat..
now i'm looking forward to da singapore and as well as my bali trip which i'm tryin to organise...
hope it'll comes true la..
And as usual, dere's no photos available cuz i din bring along my camera for dis trip.
Really sorry but i got my reason bhind it..
Most of us are plannin to get drunk in pd and it'll be better dat none of us are bringing valuable items since we cant perform our responsibility when we're drinking... so ok every1??
We left KL for PD around 1pm on sat and it was indeed a very bad mistake...
It was really fuking jam when we approach the tol at serdang...
But thank god dat da traffic was getting better soon after we left da massive crawl at da tol...
Trying to catch up with da fellow convoy cars as dey left me at da tol when i was tryin to reload my touch n go credit...
So after driving at da speed of 140km/h, i was not able to catch dem and my frenz whom in da same car as me suggested dat v sud speed up...
So i speed at around 200km/h and soon less den 5min, all da convoy cars were bhind me n out of all sudden, i realised dat i dun know da way to da condo in pd.....
I had to stop my car bside da road n waited for them...
Bloody hell, dey took around 8-10min and i was like fuk la.. why are dey so slow???
Soon, after dey reached, one of my frenz call me and laugh while saying dat v purposely drive slow after u overtake us as v know v cant catch up wit ur speed...
-_-" wtf!!!
in my mind i was like,, MCH... Of cuz u cant catch up wit my speed but i'll slow down once i cant see u guys on my rear mirror... but diuz la..
1 funny thing is dat after v reach da condo, v onli realised dat dere's 2 heroes went missing halfway thru da journey... haha.. reli darn 7 so haiz...
v reach pd roughly around 2.40pm and guess wat, da 1st thing v did is start drinking..
huh!! dey were really typical indians...
so while waiting for da 2 missin cars, v drank almost 1 crade of carlsberg 1.5lire bottles..
every1 got into da mood of drinking but some of us plannin to have some beach activities..
so da group spilted into 2; 1 drinkin and da other 1 beach
i went to da beach with my fren and oh gosh, at dat time i onli knew dat some of my frenz haven sat at banana boat b4..
so dey were quite excited about it and we paid rm80 for 6 ppl...
it was really funny as most of my frenz were fat and u sud hav a look when dey were tryin2 get back onto da banana boat in da middle of da sea... seriously, even da boat operator was frustrated as my frenz took lotz of time jus to get back onto da float..
haha....
well soon after dat, we head up for shower n proceed for da bbq dinner...
v had chicken wings, sausages with cheese n without cheese n lambs...
done wit dinner which also mean dat time to start drinking...
at total we brought 4 crades of 1.5 litres bottles of beer, 2 crades of beers ( cans ), 1 bottle of chivas, red lable, famous grouse, black lable, vodka and other chivas which i cant rmb as i was drunk d...
so it was indeed a very memorable trip as once again, v ended up goin to fight among ourself cuz of da same person again..
lets not talk bout dat..
now i'm looking forward to da singapore and as well as my bali trip which i'm tryin to organise...
hope it'll comes true la..
Saturday, May 30, 2009
Kennylogy???
Since kohs had a discussion about me havin a book entitled kennylogy....
i've been thinking what should i really write about it??
about my life or just for syiok purposes...
haha...
besides that, i've already started my hols now and i've plenty of free time doing ntg at home except for exercisin and carrying weight...
so guys...
got any idea den just voice out..
0k??
i've been thinking what should i really write about it??
about my life or just for syiok purposes...
haha...
besides that, i've already started my hols now and i've plenty of free time doing ntg at home except for exercisin and carrying weight...
so guys...
got any idea den just voice out..
0k??
Monday, May 25, 2009
I flunk my exam again..
It was indeed not a very good excuse to give but then i really cant afford just to score a credit in my family law..
Everything is just not right today..
Had a very bad feeling when i woke up dis mornin dat nullity wud not appear dis year and i guess it comes true..
Nullity was supposed to be a confirm question every year but i jus dun get it why those bastard dun wan2 give da free question to us dis year...
i prepared very hard for my nullity n divorce question which the hope of getting at least 30 marks from dem...
but once again, divorce came out as an essay question which i din really prepare for it..
amongst da 8 questions given, i could only answer around 3 question and it led me from givin up da paper jus barely 45 minutes after the exam started..
i know dat every1 wud be stone by seeing me leaving the exam hall early or givin up on da paper, but i jus dun wan2 obtain a credit from family law...
i did prepare myself for child law and as well as fp but dat again, dose questions were indeed screw up....
huh!!!
reli sad n moody now as once again, i'll be graduatin a year later...
haihz...
duno wat can i do to ease my heart...
i just told myself inside da exam hall dat no matter wat questions came out, i'll jus finish it and go out with a confident attitude..
but i failed...
huh....
sad sad sad...
mayb as wat kenneth said, i sud have change course at da very beginning..
Everything is just not right today..
Had a very bad feeling when i woke up dis mornin dat nullity wud not appear dis year and i guess it comes true..
Nullity was supposed to be a confirm question every year but i jus dun get it why those bastard dun wan2 give da free question to us dis year...
i prepared very hard for my nullity n divorce question which the hope of getting at least 30 marks from dem...
but once again, divorce came out as an essay question which i din really prepare for it..
amongst da 8 questions given, i could only answer around 3 question and it led me from givin up da paper jus barely 45 minutes after the exam started..
i know dat every1 wud be stone by seeing me leaving the exam hall early or givin up on da paper, but i jus dun wan2 obtain a credit from family law...
i did prepare myself for child law and as well as fp but dat again, dose questions were indeed screw up....
huh!!!
reli sad n moody now as once again, i'll be graduatin a year later...
haihz...
duno wat can i do to ease my heart...
i just told myself inside da exam hall dat no matter wat questions came out, i'll jus finish it and go out with a confident attitude..
but i failed...
huh....
sad sad sad...
mayb as wat kenneth said, i sud have change course at da very beginning..
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