Chapter 4 - Maintain freedom is the best policy

First of all i would like to say here is that most of the couples will experience a change of life after they get involve into a relationship..
If you are situated in this scenario then try to make it more relax and try not to change each other life style as it might get you to nowhere...
Relationship will only be meaningful when both parties accept each others'weaknesses and as well as behaviour..
There's ppl whon like to hang out with friends rather than with their partner...
This is not really a situation that the parties are not meant for each others but it is just that they had get used with friends or their company wherever they are..
So guys and girls, what you can do here is just try to make a click with them and i shall say here is that your partner might really wish that you and his/her friends can really get along well so that he/she need not to crack for reasons for not bringing you along during group outing..
Buton the other hand, if you really find that you cant get along with them then just let ur partner know about you..
I'm sure that since the 2 of you can be together, it means that eventually you'll have the understanding btw each other..
Just let your partner know that you just cant click into the group and he/she might not be in a dilemma situation in the future...
And lastly, always provide the freedom to your partner that he/she had before he/she got involved with you...
This is because if the parties are too resticted with each other, then the lack of space to communicate with the outer world will jeopardise your relationship as you'll felt that either party is restricting your rights and freedom...
Just remember that eventhough you have the freedom to enjoy your life at the moment, always think about your partner that thinking of your whereabout...
Be abit more kind and just let them know if you're going out or doing something else besides chatting or sms-ing with them...
It'll actually show them that you respect their presence in your life and not just like reporting about your daily activities...
Pls do it sincerely and not to the extend as if you're beng force to do so...
That's all i wanted to say here..
Anyway, i'm really freaking down now..
HUh!!! Hope i can really get my life going with her...
We really have alot of stuff to improve to maintain our relationship til like a fairy tale ending...
haha...
dear... love u...